Guest

After reading that suggestion for the first time here tonight, I have called a lawyer friend to discuss it. It may be a possibility, but even if the court agrees (which they may be lothe to do) it won't be enforceable till the hearing at the beginning of november.

There are, in the meantime other ways of getting her to be prudent though, which I can't go into here for obvious reasons, but rest assured they exist.

Guest, I appreciate your focus, understanding and relevant commentary. :-)

To revise an answer I gave on another thread, I do my best thinking when I am confronted by someone elses.

Being online, and connected to a resource like the mudcat (and within that I include it's members) is like having a second brain which is connected to a global consciousness.

If I'd been watching tv I'd still be struggling with square one of this thread on my own.

I must now go to bed as it is very late and the little one doesn't need a cranky Daddy in the morning!

Night night folks