Lox, Barry's right about dealers - do not have any truck with them. The ones you'll come into contact with have no interest in anyone's well-being other than their own, and are usually addicts themselves who deal in order to support their own habit. You can't bargain with them and, whilst you may be able to scare the immediate guy (who is very much a bottom-feeder in the scale of things), you won't put the frighteners on the guys further up the chain, his suppliers - the ones with the expensive houses, Mercedes or BMW 4x4s on the driveway, kids in private schools, wives wearing Jimmy Choo shoes etc.

It's a crock of shit you need to keep out of - look after your daughter but cast your ex adrift. If she falls into a hole, it's her problem. You have to step away, your sanity demands it.

And best wishes once again.
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