From the opening post:

the last time it was her turn to have our little girl around to give her her evening meal, she took her to her dealers instead.

Anyone "dealing" will sell anything to anybody.

Two year old girls are a very marketable commodity in this context.

THAT scares the Hell out of me.

The safety of your daughter comes first, and it's quite obvious that you've recognized that. In a different context, I've been made quite aware of the difficulties encountered when one must seek help in "the system," and can only offer my profound sympathy with the difficulties you face.

Don't back off.

John