If you don't want to belong then just be quiet. And this is in addition to the fact that there is no evidence the Masons actually do want you. I'm not a Mason but I don't go around criticizing them over it. I know a few Masons and they are good people. I'm not saying Masonry made them good, only that they don't deserve to be berated over their decision to join. No, it's not an organization I want to join but I don't criticize anyone who does. You seem to have a need to make a big deal of it.