jacqui, as hard as she tries to distance herself from her Catholic upbringing, she cannot help herself. Guilt is a big part of our life. If those around us don't provide the appropriate opportunities for laying of guilt, then we set it up so that the opportunities are there. Ms. Mary Sunshine suffers additionally from being half Irish. So that means she is a 6th degree black belt in the laying on of guilt. It sustains her and gives her a reason for living. Additionally, she is an Irish Catholic brought up woman. That just about means that for her to stop with the guilt, the world would have to end.

I'll get me aul cap and wellies.........

Mick