No shame in being human. Every time you fall, you're better for the getting up. It's where you end up that matters, not the sh*t you step in getting there.

It also isn't anyone's fault that feelings other than grief come up in these things. If it were easy to think well about, we would have solved it already. It's a hard thing, allowiong yourself to hurt where this hurts. Look at what I posted earlier, but did I go to bed holding my own dear one? No. I got up to write.

Let's all give each other a break, since we are unlikely to give one to ourselves.

Bless you all.