Jacqui:

I didn't know that about having to pee urgently being a sort of occupational hazard of womenhood. Until I read your post, I was of the school of thought that says "it works two ways. If down, put it up, if up pu tit down, as desired".

I just realized how wrong I have been all my life on this important, not to say central, issue.

Thanks for enlightening me.

A