Ah, yes, another upper crust dame born with a silver spoon, if not in her mouth, at least somewhere within her grasp, eh? And not to be confused with Patti Smith, I take it.

Greetings from the currently rainy, about-to-be-REALLY-windy Pacific northwestern US of A, Pattie!   Glad to have you here in the asyl... er, community!

Genie

PS
I have tried playing the spoons a few times, but I keep getting cereal, soup, and stuff all over me. You obviously have a more natural talent.