Patrish,

I think that right here is as safe as it gets. I hope you'll keep reading and sharing. What you just said was a good chunk to start with. It's a big challenge just to ponder this. Try to use that sense of things going around and around to let new perspectives bubble up... It isn't important how soon you know what you think, but it makes a lot of difference just to wonder about it.

Again, I can honestly say even after having a pretty raw day here at the Cafe, it's all worked for my good, and it isn't safer anywhere else on this earth. I've looked. I'd bank on it. It's a good place to take a risk. when it's the right time.