The first thread was deleted probably because another GUEST (durn GUESTS!) posted two very unfair salacious remarks about a member.

"Anon." (who started the thread) and "Still living (just)" wanted advice, however worthwhile or not (their decision), were receiving advice and it seemed to be helping other people as well.

If those two or others are still seeking advice, I guess you can post to this thread or start another.

Good luck and just remember, billions of humans have recovered from terrible break ups at least since humans became bipeds and the species has survived to be responsible for your current break up!

There is still a beautiful, fulfilling, worthwhile life following any break up even though that might seem impossible for you now.

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Threads combined. Messages above are from the previous thread. It will take me some time to review and move the ones that can be moved, especially since I'm entertaining out-of-town guests.
-Joe Offer-