Thomas the Rhymer---People like Dave get their jollies by trying to make you twitch.If you do, they've won.The best tactic is to ignore 'em but if yer not gonna, make damn sure you can take it as well as dish it out 'cause they don't take prisoners!As I said, it's best to ignore 'em! That way they've lost automatically.
Wavestar and Meebo--Take it from one who knows;you can and will love many times in the course of your lives.It's hard to lose a love but you will love again and stronger because of the lost love. So hang in there! After fifty years or so it starts to get easier. *grin*
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