Tink, not to worry you, but that was a very close call and he, or someone else, may be back. Also, you (whole family) may have some feelings surface about and around this for awhile. I, for one, would be perfectly happy to get late-night phone calls from you ANY TIME you have the willies, and I'll PM you the number.

The best weapon, they say, for a woman, is a hammer under the pillow-- it's the right length and weight for typical female upper-body strength and can be swung into someone's head if they are pinning you down, with sure effect. Please put one there, tonight.

~Susan