I didn't read this whole thread, but I do gotta add this, just as my 0.02...

there is no truth...

Only how each of us interpret what we see, experience, whatever...

My truth isn't the same as anyone elses, so how can I expect anyone to understand what I think of as the truth?

It's kinda like the line from "Driving Miss Daisy" from Hoak (sp?)

"How do you know how well I can see unless you can look out of my eyes?"

No one is possible of seeing the world from anything other that theri own point of view... We can try to empathise, but we can never fully understand...

I'm stopping here before this goes on for pages and pages... I think I've kinda made my point...

Say what ya mean, Mean what ya say, and stand by it!