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Thread #97098   Message #1906154
Posted By: Divis Sweeney
11-Dec-06 - 06:53 AM
Thread Name: BS: a kind of bereavement
Subject: RE: BS: a kind of bereavement
I was also fortunate (it that sounds right) that when cancer came to my mother it stole her from me inside three weeks.

This is dammed hard for you. Quality of life is everything. Always keep your visits cheery and talk and share old memories of childhood, you may not think she understands, but some of it will get a positive reactive.

Use items like photographs, music and mementos to stimulate her memory.

Take care and in my thoughts

Divis