Different room Scrump.
But it might be worthwhile ordering my drink without leaving my seat - the landlady could join in by asking me to repeat my request!
Trouble is, most (all) of the other players said I was correct but that I (we) should have talked when they played. But I find that I cannot be that discourteous after a lifetime of giving order when performers are on stage even if I do not enjoy what they do.
Too soft I assume.