Get a good night's sleep. I read this yesterday but didn't respond--you were getting some good advice from others (I disagree that Mudcat isn't the place to bring this--anyone who posts here knows they're not coming for private binding legal advice, but for a shoulder to cry on and a friendly ear and sometimes for darned good recommendations).

Keep thorough records, be consistent with your son and with your husband, and make sure you file the papers. The morning light may make things seem different, less urgent. That is an illusion.

Good luck.

SRS