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Thread #97680   Message #1925762
Posted By: dianavan
03-Jan-07 - 01:38 PM
Thread Name: BS: my Spouse has left with our son!
Subject: RE: BS: my Spouse has left with our son!
I am very happy to hear that you have been re-united with your son.

This roller-coaster ride is not over. Continue to seek help and support in the community. Document everything. Get a lawyer.

...and yes, beware of the abusive husband that will try to convince you that he will change and that 'things' will be different.

Remind your son that you both love him and that this problem is between you and your husband. Tell him that as his mother, you will do whatever is necessary to provide a better quality of life for him. Be vigilant. Children often blame themselves for family strife.

Remember that this is just a blip on the big screen of life. It too, will pass in time.

Good luck to you.