It's all "if you can", Liz. A clog dance on the instep is quite nice, with or without an a capella patella.

It's important to look like you know what you're doing and where you're going, but remember that there are those who will "fix that uppity bitch." Rape is not a crime of sexuality, but of control and domination and an "uppity bitch" is a threat and challenge to some.

Looking pathetic and lost is an open invitation, however....