"LtS, has Manitas ever been checked for sleep apnea? Sounds as though he should...the snoring is a sign." ~ I have suggested it but he doesn't believe me when I tell him how badly he snores... I suspect an investigation could identify a lot of his problems, but it would mean several lifestyle changes that he's just not prepared or scared enough to do yet.

"I hear ya about separate beds. I would but we've no room for it" ~ ya mean ya don't have a couch he can sleep on... a floor he can get to know better??! :-]

LTS