You've heard the old joke: doctor with stethoscope says "Now miss, big breaths, and Miss replies "Yeth, doctor and I'm only thikthteen".

So this is sort of music related and sort of embarassing, and directed at any lady Catter guitarists who are well cushioned about the upper bout, so to speak: where do you hold your guitar? As I get more comfortable playing the guitar, I notice I'm holding it either very high on my chest (while seated) or else I'm dealing with a shelf effect which makes it hard to see what I'm doing. Standing and playing is worse. Any advice, observations...sympathy?