gnu, you make an excellent point.

I was becoming invisible in a house full of people before my divorce. When my kids started treating me the way of their father's example, I knew it was time to get out and go back to being a full fledged human being again. It worked, and I got out before we hated each other. Getting involved with someone else again would probably drive that man nuts, because I'm not in any rush to complicate my life with a territorial relationship or marriage.

SRS