My badge says "Normally DIfferent". Norms (sociological ones) are insidious creatures invented by the bitter-hearted who think it would be really cool if they could make these whacky, dynamic and passionate humans act as predictably as falling masses or accelerating ball bearings or chemical sublimations. It isn't going to happen, not now, not ever, because there isn't any law of gravity where we come from and trying to pretend there is is not only bitter-minded, but heart-broken and tragically delusory. Rant off...