There are always exceptions to the rule. I am one of them but like Littlehawk said it takes alot of hard work. I think sacrifice would be a better word than suffering but...

The fact that I was able to better myself was a result of student loans (provided by the govt.)and sacrificing a good portion of my life to not much more than study. I did not have the support or encouragement of my parents. Sometimes I think my children suffered but they say they didn't even realize that they were poor, let alone neglected.

Once you have your degree, you have to face a bunch of gatekeepers. These are the people who do not care about your education or experience and will give the job to a 'well-connected' relative of a friend of a friend before even considering a stranger, let alone a minority or an immigrant. Nepotism is a very big obstacle to success. It can be overcome but it takes a great deal of stamina and persistence.

The gov. can provide incentives by providing adequate housing, medical and dental and education. The key word is not equality but "equal opportunity". The government should insure that all citizens have access to educational opportunities.