Instead of having one 50th I had a series of partires of different varieties ranging from Lobster Dinner on Sark, through jelly and ice cream at Lechlade, tappas at Bridgenorth, Port and stilton at Wareham [I have the pics of you at that], to coffee and mints at Okehampton, with 22 others in between. Have a 50th irthday year, not just one day. Life's too short for one party.