Just wondering, Jim Lad - that Stan Rogers song - do you mean "Forty-five Years"? If so, I thought it was more about being FAITHFUL to his wife - or his prospective wife or to his numbero uno love-interest, at any rate - resisting temptation ("How her smile lights her eyes, but honey, all I see is you" ... ). Or are you relating it to what you know or have heard about the man's personal life?