To all who expressed sympathy, thanks, and to Beanster, though I thank you fro the kind words and agree with you generally, the other thing which happens to such people, is that they are elected to the presidency of the United States on the Republican ticket or inheret their parents multi-national corporations. Then they pay other people to experience the health and phycological damage from their life choices. But, well, thats life in America! Could be a song in it.
All the best
Larry