I guess so, Susan. Also see the phrase "sadder but wiser."

And I love your axiom for screwings 1, 2, 3 and 4 !

Anybody see the recent news story about the guy who heard noises coming from his upstairs neighbor's apartment that sounded like a rape-in-progress? The guy downstairs had no phone to call the police, so he grabbed the only weapon he had at hand -- an antique sword -- ran upstairs and banged on the neighbor's door. No answer. So Sword Man broke down the door, demanded to know where the woman was, and forced Noise Man at sword-point to tour the apartment and demonstrate that there was no rape victim. Turns out Noise Man had been watching a pornographic movie on TV at high volume.

Then Noise Man calls the police and presses charges against Sword Man for breaking and entering and for threatening him with a weapon! So the victim of the break-in is guilty of disturbing his neighbor (and of plain old smut-mindedness), and the victim of the noise disturbance is guilty of reacting to it by trying to stop a crime!