I tried to reply to this thread twice and my computer went daft, do here goes again. When I first started coming to Mudcat, before I joined, I saw the healing threads, and I thought; "What a really nice group of caring people with positive, uplifting attitudes for one another." Then came the "unpleasantness" and the threads disappeared. I am truly, truly sorry that it took Jeremy and Kelly to bring them back, but my thoughts, prayers and thanks are with them and their families. All the best, Seamus P.s Maybe Support Thread would be a more appropriate name?