Well, we're not writers. Much of what we may consider to be, constructive criticism, gets misinterpreted, taken out of context and blown out of proportion. Hence the various symbols (which I do not understand) to explain the writers mood.
You will find many examples of the various posters going back to explain "That's not what I meant" and probably many more cases where the individual has left the room (sometimes for days) not even knowing that he/she has offended someone.
Having said that; Yesterday's examples of people insulting each other's spouses was way out of bounds and nothing to do with "Folk" and the other stuff they call music.
GRIN!
Jim