Reminds me of one of the things Peggy Seeger said at the concert.   She had a book of some sort. Read something like:

How to impress a woman: send her little gifts, compliment her, caress her, help out around the house, send her little poems, kiss her, make her laugh, sing to her, get along with with her mother, open doors for her, play with her pets---(a long list, along these lines)

How to impress a man: show up at his door naked---with food.