mouldy, whether you realize it or not, you are teaching many of us as to what it is like to walk with grace. From where ever you are drawing it, your strength of character and absolute love of Ian just comes pouring through. Dealing with this type of event is very difficult. When my time comes to do so, I pray that I will have the type of strength and grace that you have exhibited here.

One day we will meet, and I look forward to that. In the meantime I hope you take some comfort from the knowledge that there are many people around the world who are with you in spirit and love right now. We need not worry about finding Ian's voice, it is alive and well in you, Ruth, Alex, and Eleanor.

Bless you, ..... and thank you.

Mick