I suppose you are right, Susan, but if the family writes the obit I don't think they should have to pay.

Mickey, thank you. He passed when I was very ill and I don't think I even posted a thread about it, at the time. It was for the best as he'd been poorly for about a year, then in a very bad way for a month or so. I was relieved when he let go and was free from pain, etc. Still miss him, though, very much.