Bill, the answer is to change the culture. But I don't expect that to happen.

I would like to know why a "domestic dispute" in a dormitory wasn't handled by the campus cops to start with. If a quarrel had reached the point where a Residence Assistant was called in, why wasn't it handled as a similar quarrel would have been off the campus and the police called?

I've known of students at a major US university who thought that they shouldn't be held responsible for anything from underage drinking to assault and battery to rape because "I'm a XXXXX student." (The argument didn't hold.)