Yeah, there must be a great many varieties and levels in the trade, I'm sure.

How you look at it all depends on what your beliefs and expectations are. I was always looking for "true love"...and only true love. I was looking for "the love of my life". You don't get that by paying for it. It's not a business proposition. On the other hand....no matter how hard you look for "true love", you may not get it at all. ;-) C'est la vie.

If I incarnate again as someone who doesn't give a hoot about such niceties and idealistic standards, then maybe I'll try it your way, Mike, but not in this lifetime. No chance.