I think it went way beyond an arm around the shoulder or shoulder rub. And this is not part of our culture..an unwanted kiss on the cheeks perhaps, unwanted hugs, yes..but wrestling a woman to the ground..I have never ever experienced it or seen it...it is not OK in any culture I am aware of...he went nuts is the only explanation I can have...it would have gotten him arrested here I would say...I'd call the police and/or file a complaint on any man or woman who tried that with me..She was sort of in a bad position..probably from a traditional culture that both did not allow displays of affection (and that was not affection...something mimicing extreme lust or something else) but that also probably teaches people not to make a fuss when something bad happens...mg