If the antique dealer you are referring to is me Countess, I would suggest you try again. I do a little collecting of antiques but my occupation before my very early retirement some years ago, was clinical psychologist.
If you would like a personal assessment...based on your posts here I would be only too happy to provide one and suggest suitable treatment for your condition (if you wanted)..although I would imagine you would feel no need of such help.
If pervy is how you see me then you are lacking in insight where assessment of your fellow human beings is concerned....in my teens maybe but we all have to grow up at some point don't we....or do you?