Jeri: I'm pleased to tell you that, in my experience, some of the contributors to this thread (and one in particular!) are not typical of the people you find in folk clubs.

I go to two folk clubs regularly, and to others in the area from time to time. The vast majority of folkies that I come across at the pubs and clubs are friendly, easy-going, tolerant and welcoming. It's when I look at the Mudcat threads that I come across the aggro. Mudcat is a fascinating forum, but tends to attract a small number of wiseacres and malcontents! And, of course, the squeakiest wheel always gets the most oil!