You misunderstand me-I am not arguing in favor of external supernatural authority--my point is simply that your assertions weak --

The idea about being a nice person, for instance--there are some who argue that being "nice' is a manipulative strategy, intended to conceal real intent by masking an authentic reaction with a contrived one. In that case, it is the sort of "lying" that you object to--

Beyond that, the idea that *you*are nice is your own--others may not validate it, particularly those who have read some of the things you've said here. "Nice" is a rather trite concept, so maybe you haven't lost much--