I dunno. I don't give a bugger who knows who I am. And nothing has happened to me. Perhaps different for a woman. Occasionally you feel persecuted and misunderstood. That's mainly because we're all from different places (in every sense).
http://bigalwhittle.co.uk/
if anyones in doubt!

Some people just spit poison across cyberspace like 14 year olds. They fail to grasp that we are mostly mature people, and we haven't come to our opinions and attitudes through cussedness or reading something some dim journalist has thought up - they are the sum of our life's experiences. They are the way we need to conduct ourselves to be the people we are.

The bold sexual innuendo that upsets the Countess is perhaps a way of reaching out. Don't we all ignore stuff everyday we don't appreciate. Perhaps the Countess is waiting for someone to say - well done gal! You showed those MCPs! A kindred spirit out there.

Lets hope we all find kindred spirits somewhere.