Stop the psycho-babble.

I'm not in the slightest bit upset by 'bold sexual innuendo', if it's amusing.
Nor am I particulary upset at stupid speculation, just bored, contemptuous and unforthcoming. The Alligator has, however, apologised for his quaintly imaginative prurience.
I'm not usually intimidated at threatening and inappropriate male behaviour at music venues but would wish them to be safe place for those who do feel harassed and afraid.
Did some patronising git really say 'well done gal' for expressing this?
What I want is for it not to be necessary and that they would get on with listening to the music which is what they should have gone there for in the first place.