So many heart-rending memories here. I too have seen the negative side of hospitals and was gladdened to read about Patti's Father entering a wonderful hospice for the final weeks of his life. I would have wished that for my Father too, but regretfully he experienced a dreadful week in hospital before he left us. It's good to see that there are other choices that can be made if you are able to find alternatives. Thank you all for sharing your experiences here, hopefully they may help Mary and her family in this struggle.