Coming from a very new age space I send you love I feel if we accept there is LESS Pain.I have spent many nights saying I love I forgive I accept ---- I accept me,my feelings,this situation,and I accept the power I am being given to get thru this.They say women help bring you in and can help you leave ask him to go to the light if you are there lots of people fear death and maybe lots of us fear coming in, but from what I know it is great over there. Very Very new age but just maybe there is some truth to it