Sorcha- (Kind of relating back to the thread), You made a choice to be open, and it looks like it bit you. Maybe it was a mistake, I don't know, that is your call. I've personally enjoyed the postings I've seen, (probably a small percentage). I think life is a long series of mistakes and corrections. Kind of like steering a car: oversteering and then correcting until you get it fairly smooth usually. Even the human body exists in a constant state of flux, correcting to maintain "homeostasis". I think being open is good, but some of the things I've read on various threads DO make me wonder about security. But try not to over-correct.