I was lucky and never had any problems feeding Liz. I know a lot of people who have got quite distressed because they wanted to feed and couldn't. Though I have to say that I think with a little more time, help and perseverance a lot of people who think they can't could.
I like darjeeling too, but I don't think it's at all bitter...I can't stand anything bitter which is why I don't like beer. And I agree with Rowan...I NEVER use tea bags!
Had a lovely drop of Old Rosie on the weekend though...