Tami
I am sorry that you didn't get the job but happy that you will still be here in southern Maine.
As Janie suggested. Call the person who interviewed you and ask how you can improve your interview and what qualifications made the difference. Take notes.
You have worked long and hard for that job. As far as I can see, they have made a mistake.
NOW - I am not one to play the gender card lightly but if you do not get feedback that makes sense and you suspect you were actually better qualified than the candidate they selected, talk to Tom Coward about your options. Handled properly, next time you will be the candidate of choice.
Mary