I don't want to look at her face if she doesn't get this....

OK, but I'll ALSO pray that you can look at her positively, and reflect your belief in her, any way she comes out, because that's what she'll need first is for you to keep belieiving in her. :~)

Some of the things we do best, BTW, I've come to learn that we only do really well since we've given up needing them so badly for our own happiness-- after we've given up on the happiness side and really relaxed about it.

~Susan