True..assuming that the father knows right up front what the situation is. The best of men will say he is my child regardless but I don't think support should be imposed unless there is full disclosure right up front. And most disclosures are not likely to be forthcoming voluntarily. I realize this will destroy many relationships, but if they are held together with dishonesty maybe it is for the best. It will prevent other abuses from occurring and everything will be based on the painful truth. You shouldn't have to wait until the situation gets solved by Maury Povich. mg