Diva, I hope you didn't think I was being judgmental about you or what you wrote. I was just having a guess as to why GUEST,outside looking in said "all this talk of infidelity and choices etc".

Everybody has their own story and only they know why they have done what they have done and made the choices they have made. Sometimes they turn out to be the right choices and sometimes they turn out to be the wrong ones - that's life. You try to do the best you can with what life hands you.