Prompted by "Outsiders" post and being in a somewhat similar situation and not having had intimate contact with anyone except my spouse for more than 4 years. I went to my local GUI clinic today and I have to say my experience was quite different from Outsiders. The Staff were sympathetic and discreet and very supportive, You don't even give your name out loud, but are given a number and a form to fill and when they call you they only use your first name. They did everything they could to put me at ease and to minimize the stress of the situation and They will text the results to my mobile so I don't even have to go back unless they find something that needs treatment. so, many Thanks for the Prompt, outsider