To back up manitas at work, and others, can I remake a point I made earlier. My partner(female) runs a women's choir called the Loud Mouth Women. It is great. There are other women's choirs in the region. There are also male voice choirs. Clearly some people (well, Catain Birdseye) have a problem with this. I don't.
At Christmas, we have a special mixed sex choir for a bit of carol-singing. That's fun, too.To be frank, anybody who comes and tells us who we should or should not be singing with will get a short two-word answer.